The Abundant Nest

How to Prepare for your Empty Nest

A PURPOSEFUL LIFE

Jane Victoria Hide

A literal empty nest representing the empty nest stage of life
A literal empty nest representing the empty nest stage of life

Preparing for the transition into your empty nest involves emotional, logistical and practical considerations. Here are some tips to help you get ready.

Let's Prepare for your Empty Nest

1. Acknowledge and Embrace the Transition

Recognise that the empty nest phase is a natural part of life and an opportunity for personal growth and new experiences. Embrace the changes that come with it and focus on the positives. Read THIS POST to discover the Seven most Common Mistakes made by Empty Nesters.

2. Communicate with Your Partner and Children

Openly discuss your feelings and expectations with your partner and children. Share your concerns and aspirations for the future, and encourage them to do the same. Establishing open communication can help everyone navigate the transition more smoothly.

3. Reflect on Your Relationship with Your Children

Take time to reflect on your relationship with your children and cherish the memories you've shared together. Celebrate their achievements and the bond you've built while also acknowledging that they are ready to embark on their own journeys. Check out this BLOG POST for Tips for Parents to Stay Connected with their Young Adults.

4. Re-evaluate Your Goals and Priorities

With the extra time and freedom that comes with empty nesting, reassess your personal goals and priorities. Consider pursuing hobbies, interests, or career aspirations that you may have put on hold while raising children. Use this opportunity to focus on self-discovery and personal fulfilment. Use our guide to help you discover Intentional Purpose in your next stage of life.

5. Downsize and Declutter Your Home

As your children move out, consider downsizing and decluttering your home to better suit your changing lifestyle. Donate or sell items that you no longer need or use, and create a space that reflects your evolving interests and preferences. Reducing clutter can also make it easier to maintain your home and simplify your life. If decluttering your home seems too daunting, start with our 30 day Declutter your Cupboards Challenge.

6. Invest in Your Relationship with Your Partner

Use the empty nest phase as an opportunity to strengthen your relationship with your partner. Plan activities together, prioritise quality time, and explore new experiences as a couple. Reconnect with each other and rediscover the joy of spending time together without the demands of parenting. Check out these guys THE ADVENTURE CHALLENGE for some inspiration.

7. Stay Connected with Your Children

While your children may be leaving home, it's important to maintain a strong connection with them. Stay in touch through phone calls, texts, video chats, or visits, and continue to support them as they navigate adulthood. Offer guidance when needed, but also give them space to make their own decisions and learn from their experiences. This last bit is important! Give them space. They'll love you for it.

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