What we Need to do When They Leave the Nest: Seven Realities Every Young Adult Faces on their Journey to Independence

Hi there, pre empty nesters! So, your child has made the decision to leave the comfort of their childhood home and dive into the world of adulthood. It's exhilarating, nerve-wracking, and downright confusing all at once for them and you. So,

What do we do, as parents, to help our young adults when they leave home?

Mixed Emotions

From excitement about newfound freedom to homesickness for the familiarity of home, just like you, they should expect to feel a whirlwind of emotions as they navigate this transition. I’m sure that you’ll want to support them but just tread carefully. Remember this is their first taste of independence. So, ask first, before you do anything. And remember to listen! Read this BLOG POST to learn why listening is so important.

Independence

They need to be ready to make their own decisions, manage their own finances, and create their own path. It's both empowering and daunting for them to finally spread their wings and fly solo. Try to be patient, slip-ups are likely to occur. Be mindful of your responses and reactions if your child shares any mistakes with you. Remember, they are learning how to be an adult now. We need to be patient with them all over again.

Communication Shifts

As they immerse themselves in their new life, you might find they communicate less frequently with you. Don't worry; it's completely natural for them to become more immersed in their own journey. Try to keep a reasonable distance while they discover their independence. Do keep family traditions alive though. Remember, your child hasn't deserted you, they are simply starting their independent life. Read through this BLOG POST to discover seven tips to embracing your Empty Nest.

Practical Responsibilities

They now need to do their own laundry, grocery shopping and cooking, welcome to the world of adulting! Let them embrace these practical responsibilities as opportunities to hone their life skills. I’m sure they would accept a home cooked meal from time to time though. You know your child best. Help where you can but don't over step the mark.

Creating Their Own Home

Whether it's a dorm room, a shared apartment, or their own place, let them take pride in creating a space that reflects who they are. Their living environment plays a significant role in shaping their sense of independence and belonging. As hard as it may be to not interfere here, your relationship may depend on it. Let them live how they chose now that they are independent.

Financial Responsibility

As they bid farewell to the nest, do they bid adieu to the financial safety net provided by their parents? That’s up to you. But they do need to learn the ropes of budgeting, saving, and managing their own finances, if they don't already have these skills. Being independent means exactly that, letting them stand on their own two feet is a life lesson that is sometimes needed. Missing out on a night out with friends might be a good thing in the long run.

Personal Growth

Leaving home is a catalyst for personal growth and self-discovery. Your child needs to embrace the challenges and opportunities that come their way, and trust in their ability to navigate this exciting chapter of life. You need to do the same. You need to embrace your freedom, find new purpose and thrive in your nest stage. Use my GUIDE to help you.

So, while leaving home might be daunting for both parent and child, remember that it's also an incredible opportunity for growth and exploration. You both need to embrace the journey, stay true to yourselves, and don't forget to stay in touch—you’ll both appreciate it more than you know.

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